Enjoying things is not a contest

[ellestra]

I was always the most SFF obsessed in my intimidate circle. I was the one dragging the rest to new books and movies and games. Now my cousin does it and she even started an online fantasy magazine. She even promotes it with her friends (and her fiance) in full cosplay. There was never in my mind doubt that SFF was a girl thing. I never even thought about it as something that we should fight about it.

One of the worst things about the whole Fake Geek Girl affair was the emergence of women who would list their credentials to prove they are not like those girls who just pretend to be interested. I always want to say you don't need to prove anything to anybody. Let's not let jerks spoil our fun.